Five Techniques for Bystander Intervention
Looking for a Few Good Men…
In the wake of Laken Riley’s tragic murder while running, and the bizarre series of recent incidents where women have been randomly punched in the face in New York City, it’s clear that ensuring women’s safety is a community responsibility. regardless of gender.
Guys, we need your help. We need ALL hands on deck, because we all have a duty to watch out for each other and to stand against violence and harassment in ANY form. And a big part of that is being an active bystander.
What this means is recognizing when someone is in danger or uncomfortable, and choosing to help de-escalate or positively influence the situation. It certainly does NOT mean trying to be a hero and putting yourself in danger as well. But it could involve some low-risk actions such as calling 911, creating a distraction, or simply checking in on the person at risk.
For both men and women, here are some ways everyone can help:
· Educate Yourself and Others: Understand the signs of harassment and violence. Share resources and information on how to intervene safely.
· Speak Up: If you see someone being harassed or feel that someone's behavior is threatening, consider safe ways to intervene. It could mean making your presence known, offering support to the victim, or involving law enforcement, if necessary.
· Support Victims: Show empathy and support to those who have experienced violence or harassment. Listen to their stories without judgment and offer them help by finding professional support if needed.
· Promote Safe Spaces: Advocate for policies and environments in your workplaces, communities, and social groups that prioritize safety and respect for everyone.
· Lead by Example: Model respectful behavior in all of YOUR interactions. Challenge sexist jokes or comments that normalize violence against women. Encourage respect and consent in ALL ways.
The loss of the young jogger in Georgia and the assaults in New York City are stark reminders of the realities many women face daily. These patterns of escalating violence against women are a time to reflect on our role in creating a society where everyone can feel safe. As professionals, as colleagues, and as members of the community, it is essential that we have each other’s back and support each other.
Guys, this means you too.
